Getting Closer

I have stayed up until 2AM talking to Oreo(my boyfriend) about all the issues I have and what he has. Not like issues we have with each other but both of us share the common trait of mental issues and secretes we carry with us. It did a lot of good, I shared with him one of my secretes and he told me more about his life. I told him about my cutting problem that I'm trying to stop. He made me feel like I was not alone. When I made that blog post may 2012, I listed every reason for every cut I made on my arm that night. He has done it once before and did the same thing. What was best, he held me in a tight hug and told me he wont leave me like the countless others in the past. I only cried two tears but he did not see them. Just to have someone give two fucks about me like he does makes this life manageable enough to live.

Roki~~

Wow!

So, its been a while since I've even looked at this. I have never been thankful in my life. I am happy to say oreo and I are doing wonderful! He spoils me so much even though I tell him not too xD We are happy and plan on moving in together when I get a new job in June! He says he will get 3 jobs just so he makes more than me and can spoil and be "the man". He is silly. ^_^

Well lovelies, I need to go make dinner!

~Roki~

Time Flies

Just a little update, I have been officially in a relationship with Oero for about a week! I couldnt be happier! Also, my computer broke again...so its hard to do updates like before and my phone screen is fucked up. Haha, oh well. I will make do. So I met his parents yesterday. And unlike my house, he can have a little privacy. Which was also a tmping thing. See, Im super innocent and I had no idea he planned on going pass just kissing. At least we didnt DO it. I was so embarrassed after words but its whatever. I plan on keeping my innonce and not going that far again, haha. I have had this song stuck in my head for a while now. The song post is "The day I Left The Womb" By Escape The Fate.
Have a good day lovelies, and be careful please

~Roki~

Hey Look, Here I Am!

Music of the post! I've been pretty obsessed with this band lately. Here is Crown the Empire with "The Fallout". All rights to the band. This song is well balanced between Andy and David's vocals. Well done guys.

I'm alive guys. I no longer have the flue. I am back from the cruise. Let's start this story from the top.

So, I started talking to boy who doesn't have Tada's last name (which we are going to start calling him Oreo, it was my brother's idea to call him that). And to be honest, no I have not forgotten about the boy. The boy only talks to me in a blue moon. I think it is destiny that we just stay friends. So just so we are clear, I am dropping feelings for the boy. We are just friends. It's better that way.

So when I got sick and missed class one day, Oreo messaged me letting me know there was going to be a test in the class next class period. After that, we just started talking.

I talked to him all the time, even when I was on the ship (when I had a connection). There is not much to tell about the trip besides I missed my friends and this new friend who took far more interest in me than the boy ever did. I talk to Oreo now just about when I wake up till when I go to bed (since he never sleeps, so I always end up going to bed first). I enjoy having him around. I can say stupid fan girl stuff and he fan girls with me sometimes.

So on Valentines day, my french friend, we will call her Frenchy, invited me to a dance at her college. So we got all dressed up. And Frenchy was all like "Invite Oreo!" So I did, not expecting him to actually come. He messages me back telling me he has to get ready but will come. I think my heart stopped. So, Frenchy's friends, Frenchy, and I go down to the dance while he is headed that way. It was lame and Frenchy ended up being asked to go to this bar/club to go dance. She declined it because she didn't want to leave me and Oreo was still on his way there. So, we meet up with Oreo as we are walking out of the dorm. I was really confused but we all ended up going to the club/bar and I didn't have my ID or wallet. So I had to go back to the dorms and get it. Oreo kindly came with me. It is so easy to talk to him too. So we get back to the club/bar and find out that it is weird music. We both look at each other and was like "Oh...this is weird..." So I suggested we go sit down. The night was fun just talking to him. And so here we are today.

I had to stay after class to make up the tests we had. I had to stay like 45 minutes after class, and this class is a night class anyway so it was close to 9 P.M. when I made it out of the room. I walked down and to the front of the building I was in only to find Oreo waiting. He happily walked me out to my car and asked me about my tests(he tried assuring me I did well). And then we started our conversation back up when he got back home. Life is kind of good right now. We made plans to meet up for Naka-kon weekend, to go to this underground rave, and to go to warped tour together. If he had the money, I would ask him to go to Excision but he told me he just bought a new keyboard and was low on money. So I didn't ask him. It will be okay, I will still have fun.

Ps: I think it has been almost two months since I have cut. Let's keep this good track going.

Smile and try to be happy my lovelies

Roki~~

Vacation Update!

Finally headed home from Miami. The cruise was...interesting. More on that later. Headed to the airport. I'm ready to go home. So boy who doesnt have TADA's last name has been talking a lot to me on facebook. I enjoy talking to him. He seems like my best friend. I'm not comfortable enough to tell him everything like you would a best friend but I enjoy hearing what he has to say. I'm happy to be making friends. I'm pushing that ugly revenge side back into the shadows and moving on with life. I cant post a hyper link here for the music post. So the song of this post is Paramore "Playing God".
Have a good day lovelies

Roki~

Looking Forward To The Future

Oh my goodness guys, I have been sick since last Wednesday night! I found out I had the flue, sadly. I spent the weekend being in much pain. I finally got to start taking the antibiotics and I'm now feeling much better. I hope you all don't get the flue. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. With that being said, I didn't text the boy at all since Wednesday(I didn't want to be whiny, I was very grumpy). So I messaged him today, and I have to say, the response he gave me was up lifting. He was happy to hear from me. I can't stop smiling.
I am also leaving go to Florida on Wednesday. I am flying, so it makes me a little nervous. I hope to have good memories on cruise with my little brother. My mom planned out a trip on the Disney cruise, even though the youngest one going is 17 years old. It will still be fun since my brother is very close to me. I will try to update while on the boat.
And of course I didn't forget, time for the song of the post! In honor of Fall Out Boy coming back to the music scene (and Fall Out Boy, I can't thank you more for coming back. You have been missed), here is Sugar, We're Going Down.(Rights to the Artist, go pick up their stuff).
Have a good day guys. Smile~:) and wash your hands often. You don't want this flue stuff.
Roki~~~

Best Night I've Had In A While

I'm going to start posting the song of the post. This time is will be one that I just got stuck in my head before I started to write this post. Here is The Used Taste Of Ink.(All rights to the artist).

So, I had to come to terms with my feelings. In my little world, we call it coming to terms with all the feels. There is a lot of back story. Let me start with the back story. I went to Global Dance Festival Frost with my friend, we will call her Rainbow. Rainbow is a very, uh, social person? I think the only reason she goes to these raves is to trade kandi. Not lying. It is her point to trade all her kandi at the end of the night. She would leave me just to go trade. Okay, so if you are not familiar with the rave scene, I put a picture of kandi back at the first kandi. It is made to be traded but you do not have to trade all or at all at every freaking rave. You are to trade it with people you met to show friendship and other reasons to trade it. You can look it up if you want but that is the main point. It is so that the ravers you met remember you not "LET'S SEE HOW MUCH KANDI I CAN GET!" (wrong reason=poser kid=I cannot stand poser kids). Back to the story, sorry. So we go to frost to meet up with the boy. We meet up with him and he finally dumped his girl friend just the day before. And he even says at the rave "Hey, since I'm single now, can I get a hug?" Which I was more than happy to give but he gave me hugs before when he was not single...so? What's up with that? (he also gave my friend a hug. He likes to give hugs. It's a raver thing, I think. he was talking directly to me when he said that though). And so, we finally get to go into the main stage area to dance after meeting some other people. So we go and he was being silly. He was standing behind me and I was not much into the act so I was just bobbing around. He took my hands and started waving them in the air. It made me laugh. Then we went to find the people that we had just met. So we wonder down and he is once again behind me. And I am watching the light show while he was gloving (photo to show you). He then comes up from behind me and grabs my shoulders and makes me sway (kind of sway, but not like he was hurting me or making me fall) because I was not dancing enough for him. He makes me laugh. So then, he tells me he is going to go wonder, so I figured he did not want me and my friend tagging along so I let him go. Then Rainbow says she has to go make a phone call and I did not see her again until an hour later. I went to the middle of the crowd danced by myself (which I did have fun). I get a text message from Rainbow that she is trying to find me. So I move back to the wall. I run into the boy and he happily wants to spend time with me and I stilled tried to find my friend but stayed with him. A guy pushed pass me and the boy grabbed my hand and pulled me to the other side of him so I was not in the way and to be honest I did not want to let go. So I just let him hold my hand but then Rainbow found us. He only held my hand for about a minute, sadly. So we all started dancing and having fun. Rainbow ran off again. So me and the boy danced for quite some time with the exception that people would ask him to give them a light show but he would come right back and I noticed a few times he was watching me from where he was. He then told me he was going to be right back. He comes back very shortly and Rainbow follows him. They both have water. The boy happily offers me a drink but I told him I was fine. Rainbow kind of talked a lot and obsessed over Deadmau5 when...he...wasn't...even...there...I do not know...Oh Rainbow...Back to story. We all danced again and soon Rainbow left again, which, I do not have a problem with. She was kind of blocking me from dancing with the boy anyway. Suddenly confetti started to rain from the sky! So I took a photo:

(Photo by me. Frost 2013 my instagram)

And I noticed that when I started taking photos, he did too. I started dancing again while he took photos and I caught him taking a photo of me! I playfully hit him lightly and pouted and he just smiled.

Then another girl comes over, and I got the friend vibe from her (I hope). I kept dancing like I did not notice because I did not want to seem clingy. He can talk to his friends. And I noticed that just about everyone he talked to who he knew, they would kind of look or point towards my direction but he never introduced me.(I know a few guys that I had seen at the underground raves that he invites me to and I know they know each other. This happened a few times. What does that mean? Was I being weird?!?)
After a while, we sat down on the little step behind us while we waited for the last act to get set up. He again offered me the last bit of water. I declined again, because I felt like it was mooching off of him. He then said "Are you sure? I do not want you to faint." and I was like awe, it feels good to have someone give some kind of care for me after everything that has happened in the last few month/weeks. I assured him I knew my limit and I was fine but thank you.  The girl came back. She sat down next to him and they started to chat. I couldn't really hear what they were saying, so I started to play around on my phone. Suddenly, I feel an arm go around my shoulders and I jumped because I did not expect it. The boy had had his arm around me and he was smiling while he said "It's alright." I do not know what he means by that but I just smiled and nodded. I told him I was looking up what time i had to go to work. (If you might know what he meant, could you tell me? Please, I'm confused. Ha ha). So, we all sat there for a while. We were too tired to keep dancing for the last act. He told me he was leaving and gave me a goodbye hug.

So what I was originally talking about. I have finally faced that, those other guys I said I "liked" were just me trying to get over him...I was really trying to get over him so that I do not make our friendship awkward. I also go a text from him but I don't know if it was for me or not. He asked "Hey, are you still near the girl that was on my left." But I was the girl on his left. So I figure he just miss typed and meant right. I wasn't near her anymore so I text him back.

So what do you think about that night? Was he kind of flirting with me or was he just being a good friend? Also you should know, just about all of my friends told him back before he got a girlfriend when we first started talking that I liked him...just fyi.
But I'm confused...I want another person's point of view because all my friends say that he was flirting but I wish they would have been there to see it.

*Blushing*

Roki~